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Omg you are so right

My husband's been cheating on me for 8 years I have not been able to catch him he quit having sex with me he ended up banishing me and I don't know what to do or how to get him back I do believe that he is with another person, I just want to know the truth because it's done nothing but leave me in limbo

I’ve seen no less than 40 videos of women explaining why they prefer men who treated them like crap (bad boys). All of these are supposedly what women are attracted to. Where is ground truth with women?

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His all points in this video are absolutely correct . I'm feeling happy that i found his channel. Girls yes it is a little hard when you've been "a nice girl" , kept pleasing others rather than validating your own feelings and instincts. I've been in this situation too and now i realise what a huge mistake i did pleasing especially wrong people. I'm ready for a change , a change for MY Own Good. I'm ready to accept, apply and learn all the tips Mat gave . Thanks Mat😊

God bless Mat. Thank you

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I've always been overly honest with people. My thinking has been if their crazy doesn't match my crazy then EFF em and I dont like the feeling of hiding secrets of who I am and what made me but maybe you're onto something because I'm 28, 3 children and still single 🤣

#6 I have to disagree... in a very recent situation my ex didn't twll his new gf we broke up because he was cheating on me and said that we just grew apart and he did it to her too with one of the same girls soooooo 🤷‍♀️

I've noticed that when you try to talk to them honestly abt something serious they jump ship

Well done, Mat. TY ❤

Thank you im so confused tho because i act like the guy whos cheating 😭😭😭

So how do you deal with this? I'm in a 40 year relationship that cycles just as you have described about every 2 years.

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U are not telling when girls are friendly they try to make them mute somehow

Lovely video ☺️

He does all the things! And I showed him that Im interested, but he doesn’t make a move!!! I did all I could as the Woman!

Letting go of your shame and insecurity around sex will improve your sex life exponentially.

Yeah what if hes the one who is stuck on a routine.

Why are there so many emotionally immature men around these days ?

Great sex doesn’t come naturally for many

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I'm soo skeptical of all men. Thinking they are either just looking for a fling/fwb, or something else that isnt a life long partner. And the last two men i went on dates with were exactly those types. Even though they said the opposite. I don't get being dishonest and wasting someone's time. Life is short. Even shorter at my age. I just want to feel really and truly loved by a man, once in my life, before i die. That's my fear. Never finding love.

When you realise that when I have set standards and boundaries, might have backfired... I wanted to chase someone away. Since they didn't want to listen to what I was saying. So I tried to show them that this wouldn't work, and have them realise and go, by themselves... I know it is/was toxic on my part to do so too...But what's a girl to do when you struggle with trauma, and you deal with someone who can't take no for an answer, and you just want them to lose interest, but not the person as a friend...

Sounds like a girl I dated for 2 months where things were in my opinion going great then after 8 weeks pulled away. She said she was too busy for me and feeling that she was pulling away I gave her space and did not want to persue her. She still got mad at me for it and ended it. Broke my heart. With some people you can’t always win.

I haven’t watched this but I’m going to guess it’s breathe in, breathe out , breathe in, breathe out, wash, rinse, repeat.

This is so well summed up Matt 👌🩵

Lack of assertiveness puts me off. As well as being emotionally lazy or hinting. Also, coming on too strong. There is a fine balance and that is just when someone is themselves. No one can love bomb me because ill just run the other way. haha.

My ex bf a month after asking me to be his gf, would talk to me so aggressively and talk at me. If something happened in his life he would shut off for a day to weeks. Also whenever I would cry he wouldn’t comfort me. I had another bf that didn’t feel i deserved any comfort. Some people are weird. Now first bf is an ex and is an avoidant so won’t talk about a situation. He definitely wasn’t able to express his feelings. As time goes on I know I have dodged a bullet lol.

Your videos are amazing!

Thanks for the wisdom and encouraging words here, Mat - love how you say that my desire for a man means he's out there, echoing my desire! xo

All those signs are true he is gonna cheat. My ex did all the stuff you talked about. He told me a good year before I caught him that he was unhappy. But the reason I ignored it and didn't care was because I wasn't happy with him either. It was a comfortable relationship to me and think was for him too. We would just do our own thing and hardly talk. And guess what, he ended up cheating and I ended it. Was a godsend otherwise we just would of carried on wasting our times in a lacklustre comfortable relationship that felt more like a friendship towards the end.

I had to subscribe to you as I've watched a lot of ppl talk about relationships and how and why men act and you sir have been absolutely right! I've only watched 2 of your videos but my god, everything you have said had been so true! You really do know things 😳

I say ....run not walk away once that happens....

Is there any answer to it other than end the relationship?

He's been not nice

I used the mindset of to pay attention to the choices I make

@Mat Let's remember that EITHER ONE can be the Avoidant (or both)!

Can you tell us how to avoid relationships with avoidants? I really don’t want to deal with that mess!

Yes I've definitely had this before and it was a painful experience.....but I am also greatful in retrospect that I had a relationship with a guy with an avoidance attachment style cause it taught me what I don't want in a relationship in the future, Lesson learnt.

Very true about the 7 signs

Sometimes they go cold on you in the same day.😢

He pulled away as his father is poorly , he’s become distant and snappy , I send him voice notes I get answers every now and then … he’s ex army so already suffers with ptsd and at one point said he didn’t want to talk to anyone I’m so confused what to do ?

They don't want carry burden long term, it easy superficial date with mutiple women

Say no to them-regarding a boundary of yours- and you will find out SUPER quick!!

You are amazing sir 💖

I actually felt all the details you have discussed and now the same guy is back after 2 months of detached relationship

5:20 i rolled with laughter 🤣🤣

what do you mean no man is gonna spend 13 months with a woman he doesn't love? yeah, no HIGH value man with other options are going do that, but most men don't have options like that, Most men would otherwise be incels. They date someone for free and frequent sex until someone better comes along.

Wow what an explanation great thank You